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Custom Wedding Songs

for your ceremony, first dance, proposal, elopement, and more!

We want to hear your story and write your original wedding song! You get one shot at your special day—set it apart from everyone else's.

“I can't thank Selda and Derek enough for creating such a beautiful and personalized wedding song for us. It captured our love story perfectly and made our special day even more unforgettable”


Through several consultations, we’ll learn what makes you both…you. What music do you love? What makes you laugh? What makes you cry? What makes you…weird? We’ll capture your uniqueness and create a song that suits you and your day perfectly.

Our Process

1. WE TALK Over Zoom, phone or in person we'll get to know you as a couple and find out what kind of song will serve you best

2. WE SHARE We'll get your feedback to ensure we're on the right track

3. WE REWRITE We incorporate your feedback and adjust as needed

4. WE DELIVER Upon completion, you'll get a radio-ready recording, hand-written framed lyric sheet, and any other add-ons we discuss

Wedding Party
“As an NYC-based singer, I met Selda and Derek through an industry contact. I already knew their work as songwriters for theatre, and when he shared what they’re doing for weddings, I was blown away. So, when Tariq and I were planning our wedding, it was a no-brainer to go to them. They only do a couple of these a month, and our fingers were crossed it would work out, but we got them!  If you’re lucky enough to get them–get them!”


Your Song Can Serve As:

  • First dance

  • Vows

  • Proposal

  • Wedding video

  • Anniversary song

Some More Ideas:

  • Father-daughter dance

  • Surprise gift after/during proposal

  • ‟Roast” song from the best man…

  • A gift to the couple

  • Absolutely anything!


About Us

We are NYC-based, award-winning songwriters for the stage and screen. In addition to traveling the world writing for some of the music industry's greatest talents, we have been fortunate, through Songs To Say I Do, to connect directly with people like you, having the inspiring opportunity to capture your unique story. The feeling we get seeing our song elevate your wedding is as thrilling to us as any of our other accolades.

“I heard about Selda and Derek on a podcast, and what they were doing with original wedding songs sounded fascinating. I wanted to surprise my friends with something totally unexpected for their wedding. I reached out, and had the pleasure of getting to know Selda and Derek over a few conversations. The song turned out better than I could have imagined – and…I definitely won the prize for best wedding gift ;)”



Let’s get started with your story!

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